I don’t believe in coincidences.

“Some may count this experience as simply a nice coincidence, but I testify that the tender mercies of the Lord are real and that they do not occur randomly or merely by coincidence.” -David A. Bednar


Nothing about meeting this man was coincidential. Though I didn’t know it when we first crossed paths, Ryan was placed in my life at the exact moment I would need him most. We became fast friends, a friend that I so needed during the darkest days of my life.

He was the shoulder that I cried on regularly. He was the understanding and sympatetic ear that allowed my broken heart to say it all. He was patient when I would feel guilt or shame because I had let another man into my heart–a heart that still in many ways still belonged to another. He was there through the pain, but he was also the one who could make me smile and feel alive again. He was my constant.

I remember reading the quote above on a particularly hard day, and sending it to him in a text message. I cried as I wrote the words, “Thank you for being my tender mercy.”

Tender mercy.

Such eloquant lovely words, with an even more beautiful meaning.

The Lord’s tender mercies are the very personal and individualized blessings, strength, protection, assurances, guidance, loving-kindnesses, consolation, support, and spiritual gifts which we receive from and because of and through the Lord Jesus Christ.” -David A. Bednar 

Blessings like him don’t happen mearly by coincindence. I have never felt as guided or as taken care of by my Father in Heaven as I have in the past two years.

If I have ever felt forgotten, if I have ever felt abandoned, or if I have ever wondered if God truly cares about my broken heart, all I have to do is look over at my best friend.

He is living proof that my Father is aware of me and truly does want me to be happy.

I will be forever, inexpressibly grateful for the tender mercy that he is in my life. ❤


3 thoughts on “I don’t believe in coincidences.

  1. That’s incredible Monica! To have to go through such hard things, yet to have such an incredible blessing placed in your life! You are amazing! We are so happy for you!


  2. I don’t believe in coincidences either. The people that we cross paths with are here to help us- and us them. It had been so awesome to see Ryan take on the role as husband and father. We love him too!


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